Showing newest 24 of 47 posts from 12/1/09 - 1/1/10. Show older posts
Showing newest 24 of 47 posts from 12/1/09 - 1/1/10. Show older posts

Wednesday, December 30, 2009

Love and Support for Adoptive Families - Part 1 of 3


"There is nothing more divine than the healing of the human heart"

Author Unknown





Adoptive families are all around us these days. Some families take children into their hearts and homes from the American foster-care system, others travel abroad to bring home the newest members of their families. Regardless of the details, one thing is certain and universal - adoptive families desperately need ongoing love and support from their friends, family and church family.


Not everyone is called to adopt, but everyone can be involved in caring for orphans. My prayer is that you will find meaningful and practical ways to come along side adoptive families that are in your life right now.



ASK


*Keep asking for the entire first year. The first year is filled with adjustment, lack of sleep, grief, sibling issues, post-adoptive depression and the list goes on.


Step in and offer to help. Don't say "If you ever need...." because they will never call you. Everyone says that. Be deliberate and persistent. Make suggestions based on what you know about the family. Families are different in their needs, some would appreciate child care (we'll talk about respite care later), others need errands run, still others just need encouragement. If they decline your help the first time, that's alright, perhaps the timing wasn't right. Ask again and again.



*Offer to come over on a specific day to help with the children. Families who adopt are often overwhelmed with post-adoptive appointments. They can use help transporting children to lessons and/or appointments. Be flexible and available.



PRAY


*Pray, pray and pray some more. Ask the family how you can pray without being intrusive. Their requests can change daily so keep asking. Be faithful to lift them in prayer everytime the Spirit leads you. Remind the family that you are praying for them - believe me, it means a lot.
*Send the family a note or card of encouragement occasionally, they are invaluable.

More to follow....









Tuesday, December 29, 2009

Trippin' Tuesday


Today has been super busy, but productive.


Call me grumpy, but in this small house, I am so ready to get the clutter under control. To do this, Christmas must be put away. My older boys and I swept through the house, dismantling and boxing everything up until next year. It felt great to vacuum all of the corners once more!


All of this was after I cut my 6 sons' hair in the basement. I kept their hair just a bit longer for the winter. It takes longer to cut when I do that because I have to do it all with scissors rather than the Wahl hair clipper. Nonetheless, they all look very handsome.


I had hoped to send Hailey to the store for me today because she offered, but I just couldn't get a list together. Besides, I just needed to cuddle with some kids....groceries could wait another 24 hours. I only need a handful of things anyway. Now I'm looking forward to my sweet hubs coming home and taking us all out to the local 'trough' buffet - whoo-hoo!


Other things that I am hoping to accomplish this week are lesson planning, digital scrap booking and some bulk cooking in preparation for the "Eat From the Pantry" challenge.

A couple of upcoming things you may find interesting...


I am working on a series about how to minister to adoptive families. It includes helpful information for those of you who may have an adoptive family close to you. You'll be surprised at all the ways you can reach out and make a difference without going overseas.



Also, if you haven't entered the "$5 Dollar Dinner Mom" cookbook giveaway, you better get on it! I'm giving away three of them on New Year's Day and I want to put one in your hands.


Take care!


Monday, December 28, 2009

"Eat From the Pantry" Challenge: THE PLAN

MorrisMom has finally come up with clear cut goals for the challenge, they are as follows:



*Spend no more than $500 the month of January.


*Go to the store no more than 3x in the month of January, only shopping for perishables like milk and fruit.


*Clean out the deep-freeze by eating as much as we can use out of it.


*Streamline dinnertime, making it simpler and more enjoyable.



I have planned 31 days of dinners for January!


The following weekly format will be used, Monday/Casseroles or frozen meal, Tuesday/Beef, Wednesday/Pasta, Thursday/Slow Cooker, Friday/Chicken, Saturday/Flex night or leftovers, Sunday/Soup night.


1-Fried chicken

2-Leftovers

3-Chili in crock pot, double

4-Four-cheese casserole

5-Sloppy Joes, double

6-Lasagna, double

7-Slow cooker night, Applesauce Chicken

8-Chicken Pot Pie

9-Leftovers/Flex

10-Minestrone soup/rolls

11-Breakfast casserole

12-Mexican w/beef

13-Spaghetti


15-Kickin' Chicken

16-Flex/leftovers

17-Chili

18-Baked potato bar


20-Fettuccine

21-Slow cooker - Chicken & Dumplings

22-Chicken/cheese enchiladas

23-Flex/leftovers

24-Potato soup

25-Soup & sandwiches

26-One-skillet beef/green bean/tomato dinner

27-Lasagna

28-Slow cooker/Parmesan chicken

29-Fried chicken

30-Flex/leftovers

31-Chili


Side dishes will likely be random veggies from the freezer and pantry.


The breakfast menu has been the same in our home forever, it looks like this:


Monday/oatmeal

Tuesday/Pancakes or french toast

Wednesday/cereal

Thursday/bagels, fruit, yogert, homemade bread

Friday/Scrambled eggs

Saturday/Pancakes or french toast

Sunday/cereal


Ask Hailey, at 23 years old, she can still quote the breakfast menu, even though she is away at school! Yeah, we're kind of boring that way. In my defense, the more pre-made decisions that are in my day, the less I have to spend precious energy and brain cells thinking about what to do next. LOL!


OK, now for snacks and desserts. We aren't big dessert people, actually, having "Ice Cream Night" every Wednesday is too much for me, but it's our Family Night and everyone loves it.

Once in a while, I'll make dessert. However, I have a ton of freezer apple pie filling that needs to get used up. I will be looking for creative ways to use it and I'm open to suggestions.


As for snacks, I can get lazy here. There are times I give into store bought cookies and chips because I am just too tired to make another batch of cookies or drag out the popcorn popper. This must cease!! At least for the month of January, I plan to make granola bars, healthy cookies and popcorn for the kids to munch on. There are still a few cookies and candies hanging around from the holiday, but they will be gone soon. We will refer to better habits of the past.


What are your thoughts? Are you working on a plan for your family? Just grab a pencil and paper and start scribbling, if you just come up with a 3-day or even a 7-day plan, that's great.



Just Another Manic Monday

With a sick child over the weekend, I knew that a trip to the pediatrician was on Monday's schedule. You parents know that there's nothing like a doctor's visit to get your day totally off track. However, I decided to take a look at the CVS flyer this week and take advantage of some deals, while I waited for the anticipated antibiotic.





Whenever you walk into CVS, make sure you scan your ExtraCare card- you don't want to overlook special savings that might be waiting for you! I have received over $6 in CVS bucks in the past just for scanning. Today, I received 5 coupons, most of which didn't interest me. However, when I saw that CVS brand pull-ups on sale, buy one get one 50% off, I noticed that one coupon said "Save $2 on $10 CVS brand sale". So I nabbed two packages of 26 ct. pull-ups and got both for $13.73.


They had a 3-pack of Ivory soap on sale for .99 and I had a $1 off coupon, made a whole penny on that one! Colgate 4 oz. toothpaste was $2.99 with $2 ExtraCare bucks back and $1 off coupon, that was free also. Vo5 shampoo and conditioner was .99, not as cheap as I've seen it but still a good deal. Dawn dishsoap was .99 and I had a coupon for .25, not earth-shattering but still.....


Where I saved the most, I feel (turn your heads, guys) is in sanitary products. Sunday's paper had some sweet B1G1 coupons for Tampax tampons and Always Pads. CVS had them on sale anyway, then with the coupons I saved $9.18!


All in all, I saved $26.73! Honestly, I haven't been scoping the CVS ads faithfully each week as I had been. Part of my money saving strategy is to just stay out of stores as much as possible.

I knew I would be there anyway, so I planned a trip. If I didn't need to pick up a prescription, I wouldn't have gone. I bought an Alice.com card when they were on sale a couple of months ago. If you haven't checked out Alice, please do. I haven't ordered anything yet, but it seems that they're prices are very competitive and, once again, it keeps me out of the store.

If I have to pay a few more cents to avoid taking 8 kids to the store with me and just have it delivered to my door, so be it. I'm all over it.

"Eat From the Pantry" Challenge: My Goals

OK, I've been giving this "Eat from the Pantry" challenge some thought and I'm ready to share.



Our eating habits have changed so much in recent years, I feel as though all I do is make goals and change again. About 10 years ago, I was a devoted vegetarian, raw juice enthusiast and herbal student. I wouldn't as much as take an aspirin for a headache and tried my best to live as naturally as possible.



Today, my entire perspective has changed. Sure, I would love to live in a perfect world, but for me, it just doesn't exist. I still do my best to feed my family well, but my definition of 'healthy' has changed to something I consider a bit more balanced.



That being said, my pantry items are staples for me, now that I have 9 children to get fed. I can't imagine how much time it would take to do all of the juicing, cutting and chopping that I used to do. My priorities are good quality meats, fruits, vegetables, grains and milk. Our family has some milk allergies so I still buy rice and soy milk. I used to make our own bread for many years, but again, life has changed and it is done as more of a special occasion now.



There are various stages of child-rearing that are all in play at the moment in our family. We still have one in diapers, 6 boys who can eat a ton and are hungry all the time, a college student who likes to get 'love packages' from Mom with her favorite coffees, etc., not to mention other demographics like 3 growing teenagers and 5 kids under 11 years old.



Food is important in more ways than one. First of all, they can't wait forever for me to get a meal on the table. When there are practices or games that need to be attended in the evening, dinner needs to be nutritious and fast. Second, the children want to see their favorite meals, not a lot of 'new' recipes. Third, snacks are really important around here. The kids really look forward to snacks in the afternoon and I need to be able to pack quick, somewhat nutritious snacks to take to games and outings.



As I consider realistic goals for the "Eat From the Pantry" challenge, I do not plan to put excessive pressure on myself. My regular grocery budget for 11 people is $1,000 per month, that is without coupons or sales. Honestly, I rarely spend $250 per week, it's more like $150-175.



Weekly grocery trips are the norm for us, mostly due to the fact that I cannot store much more than a week's worth of food at a time. I have two refrigerators and a deep freeze. I also have a pantry that used to be a broom closet and a bonus area under the basement steps. When we had 3 children, I used to make once-a-month Aldi trips and semi-monthly trips to Meijer. That was very doable, but not these days.



To conclude: Success with the "Eat From the Pantry" challenge depends largely on meal/snack planning for the month. I need to plan for all 31 days of January and make sure not only are meals planned but that I have all of the ingredients, or most of them, near the beginning of the month. I have.....hmmmm....three days to accomplish this. Better get to work. More soon...

Sunday, December 27, 2009

New Giveaway - The $5 Dinner Mom Cookbook


I am SOOO excited to announce that I have Erin Chase's new cookbook to give away and you are gonna LOVE IT!! I'm giving away 3, yes, THREE BOOKS PER WEEK for three weeks. If you don't win one the first week, you can keep trying for the other two weeks!



Her book is just yummy, full of strategic grocery shopping tips, couponing, meal planning and more! Meal categories consist of:



Pasta and Pizza Dinners

Chicken and Turkey Meals

Beef Meals

Pork Meals

Fish and Seafood

Soups and Stews

Vegetarian Meals

and much more!!



Erin details how she makes each meal for under $5 - Dude! Just think, we can get on track with our meal planning AND budget, all at the same time! I am lovin' my copy and here's how to get yours:



*Become a follower of Morristribe for one entry.



*Grab my button for another entry, if you are a blogger. Then leave a comment telling me you did so.



*Mention the giveaway on your Facebook for a third entry, let me know that you did.



*For extra-credit, if you don't have a blog or FB, just tell me one gift you received for Christmas that you plan to re-gift! Ha!



Deadline is New Year's day at noon! 2010!



Can't wait to get this book in your hands! Good luck!


Saturday, December 26, 2009

Eat From The Pantry Challenge

January can be a great time to re-group, re-organize and cut the clutter.
Actually, I find that doing all of that prior to the holidays works better for me. However, since I've been in the kitchen more than normal the last 6 weeks or so, my cabinets are not only poorly organized but rather a total disaster. I told my oldest daughter, Hailey, that I would consider it to be a Christmas gift of the highest honor if she would 'gut' my cabinets and re-organize them. I'm still waiting, but I hope she will.
Anyway, after checking Money Saving Mom this morning, I saw that she was doing her "Eat From the Pantry Challenge" and I promptly signed on. Maybe you should check it out too! We could do it together! I'll update at least once a week and you promise to contribute to the conversation on the Morristribe, deal?? That will be fun!
More details will follow about the "Eat From the Pantry" challenge!

Friday, December 25, 2009

Christmas Day with the Morristribe

Merry Christmas from our family to yours!


What a wonderful holiday we have had. It was with great anticipation that the bio Morris kids watched the reactions of the adopted children on Christmas morning. Knowing it would be their first Christmas, we all kept the focus on them.


It has just been short of hilarious to listen to them, mixing up American traditions, trying to figure out what Christmas was going to be like. We explained and explained, but never having experienced Christmas, they just couldn't absorb it.....until now.


The bios graciously sat back and let Rahel, Bereket and Ephy just take it all in and open their gifts.

Look at their faces as they came down to see the tree lit with tons of gifts all around!

We all prayed and thanked God for our family and for the funds to purchase the gifts.



Then, like the other night, we started with Ephy and let him open the first gift. He still wasn't sure what was going on. Even after he opened his first gift, he looked like he was finished.


Rahel holds up her big Santa gift bag with a huge smile!


If you remember a few weeks back, I got a sweet deal at Target on the TAG readers.

Isaac and Bereket loved playing with them and I was pleased with them also. The website has some fun things to do to reinforce what they are learning.

What would Christmas be for 5 yo boys without HotWheels?........

Which kept Mark busy most of the afternoon putting them together!


Tons more pictures to show but I'll cut it off here.


I pray that Christmas was everything you wanted it to be,

and that you found the simplicity and glory of the baby Jesus in your day.









Christmas Eve

After cooking pretty much all day on Wednesday, making a #20 turkey and all the fixin's for dinner with Grandpa, I certainly wasn't in the mood to break out the yeast and make bread.

However, I learned the hard way last year when I gave into fatigue and didn't make the Braided Sandwiches. I substituted with other things and the kids were bummed.

So, I got up early and started on the bread. The children were anxious to make the gingerbread houses, so I needed to get them done quickly.

With bread making, I've learned lessons the hard way. There is a knack to bread making and I went through a lot of trial and error before I figured out what I was doing wrong. This might sound like a commercial for yeast, but I am telling you, don't ever skimp on the yeast. Actually, only buy one brand....SAF. It's not always easy to find, sometimes I can find it at GFS and other times I have to order it from a bread company, but it's worth it. I found myself unprepared to make bread and gave into buying health food store yeast. It looked fresh and sponged well at home, yet my bread didn't turn out as well as I would have liked. It had a grainy feel about it rather than the silky feel the dough usually had. It still tasted fine, however, it didn't have much flexibility to it and I was unable to get a really nice looking braid on my sandwiches. So, some grace when you look at the pix, ok? :)


First, I roll out the dough in a shape like this, about 1/2" thick.



Then I put the meat and cheese in the middle of it and score the sides like so.

I make roast beef/cheddar cheese, turkey/provolone cheese and a veggie loaf.


I sauteed some onion and garlic in olive oil until soft and then poured it down the center of the
meat and cheese.


Then just fold the slats over to the center, crossing each other. This make make a suedo-braid. Then bake as called for. I have often thought that this could be done with Pillsbury bread dough as well.

It's very pretty and impressive. You can also brush the top with butter and top with herbs for a more special look. You would add this step 10 minutes before your bread is done. Add 1 tsp. basil, 1/2 tsp. oregano and 1/2 tsp. garlic powder in a cup and mix well. Brush bread with 2 tsp. of melted butter, then sprinkle the herbs on top and bake for no more than 10 more minutes.

It smells so wonderful!


My recipe makes 5 loaves of bread, so I had some extra dough and made a couple dozen rolls.

Here's the finished product. Again, I've made much better looking Braided Sandwiches in the past, but they got the job done.Finally, the kids could start on the gingerbread houses! Hailey and I "glued" the houses together with icing first. Rahel, Eli and Isaac worked together, while Hailey worked with Bereket, Mer and Ephy.


Bereket seems perplexed as to why we were putting this 'food' on little houses.

Here's the finished products, aren't they cute?

Now it was time to bath all the kids, dress them and get ready for Christmas Eve service. This is a very special tradition for us and everyone was very anxious to get there. When we return home, I will put out quite (another!) spread for the family, including the Braided Sandwiches, chips, chicken drummettes, sliced veggies and FAR TOO MANY desserts....oh, and Sparkling grapejuice! We live on the edge, don't we?? :D

By 9pm, we had everyone but Hailey and Trevor, who promised to stay in the basement, in bed so that 'Santa' could get to work on the gifts. We don't do 'Santa', but Bereket seemed to really want to believe he was real. We explained and explained to no avail. Oh well, he'll catch on. No harm done. My only real issues with Santa are these:

*Trust about what's real and not real is very important with our children. Santa puts me in the position to lie.

*Santa's powers line up with diety and I have a problem with that. Only God can do the things we describe Santa to do.

Just my opinion and it's from personal experience.

Tomorrow is the big day, need some sleep!






















Groovin' with Gramps

Like many of you, Wednesday through Friday have been busy days filled with love, food and family. I've been cooking myself silly over here, but really wouldn't have it any other way.
I absolutely LOVE it when the kids ooh and aahh at their favorite foods! My husband always questions if I really needed to make so much food, but if I don't, someone will be missing a favorite.

Everyone watched as Ephy opened the first gift from Grandpa Morris.
It took him a few minutes to get started, the adopted kids are so unfamiliar with gifts.
Still, he got it open and was just thrilled.


Then Bereket's turn, he was very happy and grateful.

Grandpa's big boys got iTunes cards!

Rahel got a CD with some new earphones. Little did she know, she would get an MP3 player Christmas morning. It's heartwarming to watch Rahel's face as her little brother's open gifts. She is truly happy for them and is willing to wait her turn.



Our kids always do this, get on the ground and play with all the toys. MOST of the time, they share pretty well, especially if it was just opened. Meredith and Eli came along side the little kids and showed them how to play with these toys. It sounds weird, but many times internationally adopted kids don't know how to play. We have had to show them in a very intentional way, but they are catching on.
The Ethios thought that Christmas was over....cute. Bless their hearts, they just didn't know what to expect, no matter how many times we told them. Next stop.....Christmas Eve.






Wednesday, December 23, 2009

And The Winners Are.......

I am thrilled to announce the winners of the 2-$25 Amazon Gift Cards, as determined by random.org.
#49 Christina
#19 Dena
Please email me your shipping information at morriskelly62@yahoo.com.
Congratulations!

Tuesday, December 22, 2009

It's Official....I'm Behind!

I submit to reality....I'm behind schedule.


This morning I got a little behind on my chores, so by the time breakfast was complete, I was rushing the kids out the door to take our family Christmas picture. It isn't that often that I can get all 9 kids together, now that Hailey is in college. But among the complaints and delays, the picture was finally taken and we'll enjoy it for many years to come.


I haven't been sleeping well at all this week and I am in a perpetual state of fatigue. Once we got home from the picture taking, I made everyone a cup of hot cocoa while I heated up some leftovers for lunch. I was thinking about what I had to accomplish later in the day, so much for "uni-tasking". I am finding that to be very, very difficult! My mind tried to coordinate how I would drop Trevor off for a basketball game and still make it to Erin Chase's house for her book signing party.


In case you haven't heard, Erin is the "$5 Dinner Mom" at http://www.5dollardinners.com/. She's been on Rachel Ray and Good Morning America, quite the celeb. Erin and I have met a few times and she was gracious enough to invite me to her party - cool!
I just bought 6 books, 1 for me and 5 for her to sign and giveaway to you all! More about that soon!


Anyway, I knew that I needed a nap in the worst way or I was going to be a zombie this evening. I decided to lay down when the littles were napping, the teenagers held down the rest of the tribe. I was afraid that napping would push me further behind, and it has, but I really need to listen to my body and take care of myself sometimes.


Fortunately, I got some of tonight's dinner ready last night so I just needed to combine a few last minute ingredients to pull it off. However, the Braided Sandwiches didn't get made. Tomorrow is Christmas dinner with my father-in-law, so I have backed myself into a corner of having to cook ALL day on Wednesday. I'll have to make the Braided Sandwiches AND cook a #20 turkey while I take care of 9 kids. Should be interesting......what was I saying about "uni-tasking"? Am I crazy or something?

I had a great time at Erin's place, she is just the most down-to-earth woman and I really like her a lot. She has an incredible gift for cooking and I'm in awe. I learn a lot from women like her.



















Monday, December 21, 2009

Multi-tasking, Uni-tasking....or no-tasking?


As Americans, it seems that we are conditioned to multi-task. It just isn't enough to do one thing at a time, or possibly two things at a time. To be truly successful in our society, we must be proficient in doing several things at once, or so it seems.

"It is emerging that multitasking places excessive demands on executive control centres in the frontal lobe", according to www.neurophysiology.wordpress.com, read more about their research here. To summarize, we humans weren't meant to multi-task. Our performance diminishes with each additional task we place on the brain. So what now? How do we function well in our society with this knowledge?


Control follows knowledge. We can make changes and take control when we know what it is we are trying to accomplish. What sort of knowledge do I need? Do I need to be more organized? Perhaps manage my time better to get more done? Maybe a new groovy calender? How about a book to read on the subject, yea, that sounds like a good one.


Speaking for myself, I've been there and done all that. I have no desire to do any of the above. This 'uni-tasking', a phrase that I read about on www.huffingtonpost.com, is something that I am trying to come to terms with. I encourage you to visit this site and do a little reading, there are some very good articles and suggestions to ponder. Also, Power of Slow has some excellent reading.


Regardless of where God has me, I have to believe that if the Savior of the world had 24 hours with which to do His ministry, it has to be enough time for me as well. Don't get me wrong, I love to read and learn from other people, yet I really yearn to take the example of Jesus.


Jesus was a total 'uni-tasker', pardon the phrase. Jesus seemed to have been very focused, channeling His energy and glory to the situation at hand. He wasn't concerned about His Blackberry ringing or the emails waiting for Him. Sure, it would be easy to dismiss all of that, sighting that times were more simple back then. Perhaps, yet in Jesus' time, people had bigger problems to worry about than their technological gadgets. Their food supply, health care, transportation and housing were all very sensitive issues that could change quickly and without notice. Just a storm in the area could wipe out their food supply for months to come. As Americans, we generally don't concern ourselves with these things, we really do have it much easier than the Israelites did.


So where does a mother of 9 children go from here? Down on my knees first. I am learning, just like you are, how to live this life in a way that pleases God and yet spares me from martyrdom, as least for now. I plan to give 'uni-tasking' some thought and consider changes that could be made. Maybe if I focused on one thing at a time, I wouldn't get as much done but perhaps I would feel physically better. Maybe I wouldn't be so tired all the time and I might even lay off the sugar and (some!) caffeine to keep awake.


What are your thoughts? Is 'uni-tasking' something you've heard of before? Is it something you would consider? Talk to me.


Picture from Google images

Yule See Life Different After This.....





This is a rather non-conforming post considering it's Christmas week, but I just had to show this to you all! My boys are all, or have been in the past, totally obsessed with skate boarding. Eli, my redhead, just showed this YouTube video and I was just totally pumped after I watched it. Can you imagine what your life would be like if you could overcome the challenges before you? It sure made me think and likewise minimized the battles I deal with. Enjoy!

A Detoury Day

Today was to be the first day of Christmas cooking and baking for the holiday week. As life has it, a few little detours have been thrown my way. No prob, I did a little readjusting and I think we'll be just fine. I am going to have to go out shopping, though, and I really am very tired of the crowds at stores. Nevertheless, I must as I didn't take adequate inventory of my bread baking supplies. I realized this as I finished grinding a boat-load of wheat berries.
Once I recognized my deficit of yeast and powdered milk, I decided to jump ahead in the schedule to free up time later in the week. I am making the Sloppy Joes today, instead of tomorrow. So here's where I'm at in the plan....
*Cornbread baked and crumbled for stuffing, in frig
*Wheat ground and waiting to be made into bread
*2 dishes of Chicken Tetrazinni finished
Unfortunately, this is about all I can do in the kitchen at this point without the bread being finished. Discerning that the children hadn't had a chance to wrap their gifts to each other yet, it seemd the perfect time to get that task done.

Eli loves to wrap, he is my excessively kinestetic one. It took him forever to finish the elaborate bow he wanted to make.
Then it was Meredith's turn....but she was gone with Hailey on an errand. Meanwhile, Isaac was just itching to wrap something so I let him wrap Mer's gift and I'll let Mer wrap Isaac's gift later...
I just couldn't resist a chance to get some lovin' from Isaac!
I thought this was so cute as Isaac tried to write Mer's gift tag.
Cool, I found these coupons in the bottom of my Amazon shipping boxes. They are for 20% off any baby product, I could use them for diapers.
Just one final cutie, Waffle, eating some red pepper.
I'm off to take Trevor to practice, then to the health food store for bread stuff, then the book store, then to get Trevor and home again. Should take me a couple of hours.
Take care and take it slow this week! Remember, it will all get done.

Our First Real Snow!

It's official, we had our first 'real' snowfall of 3" on Saturday!
Of course the kids couldn't wait to eat breakfast and get outside with Dad.
Isaac in his stunning form throws one of the first snowballs!

Ber is a close second with a slightly smaller specimen of ball!


Eph gets in on the action wtih a pre-sib-made ball of his own!
Isn't he just a cherub?



On another note, we just got these looms in the mail and I must say that we are having quite a wonderful time with them. They are VERY heavy plastic, they could double as frisbies or pool toys in summer (kidding). Check them out here if you're interested.





Saturday, December 19, 2009

Christmas Week Meal Planning

Well, it's showtime! Time to pull out the family favorites and make some memories.

To pull this off, as is the case most years, I need to break things down day by day so that I don't get too overwhelmed. Margin is the key to not setting myself up to fail. That being said, here is the plan for the week and the accompanying menu:

Today, my daughter Hailey and I spent the entire day shopping. I left the house about 11am and didn't get home until about 5pm. We only stopped for some coffee and a muffin early on at Panera, the rest of the time we were bustin'! I knew that I would need an easy dinner tonight because I am exhausted! I already had in my mind to try a reader's unnamed recipe from last week, open some cans and be done with it. It's in the oven now and smells yummo.

Saturday's goals were to get all the grocery shopping done and perhaps make cornbread for stuffing later in the week. But I can tell you that I am much too tired to go any further in the kitchen than dinner and besides, my family needs me.

Sunday I plan to make the cornbread and grind wheat for bread on Monday. Grinding wheat can be such a mess, it's so much easier on baking day to have your flour ready to go. I am planning Chicken Tettrazini for Sunday night meal, doubling and putting one in the freezer.

Chicken Tetrazinni
2 cups spaghetti, cooked and drained
2 cups chicken, cooked and diced
1 can cream of chicken soup
1/2 cup onion, chopped
1/4 cup green pepper, chopped (sometimes I'll use zucchini)
1 cup chicken broth
1 1/2 cup cheddar cheese, grated
Saute onions and peppers in a little oil. Mix with the rest of the ingredients. Cool and put in a freezer bag and freeze flat.
When ready to use, thaw and place in a 9x13 pan and bake at 350 degrees for 20-30 minutes until heated through.
Thanks to Money Saving Mom for this recipe!

Monday is going to be a simple, pasta night so that I can save energy for bread baking. I plan to make a Four-Cheese Italian Pasta, and once again, doubling it for later use. I will use Denise's Soft N' Satiny Bread recipe to make Stuffed & Braided Sandwiches (pix on baking day!) for Christmas Eve. On Christmas Eve, once we arrive back home from Christmas Eve communion, we prepare a spread of finger food, including these sandwiches. More on that soon.....

Tuesday evening I am planning to attend a blogger friend's party to celebrate her new book, more on that later! Anyway, I don't plan on being here for dinner, so I am planning Sloppy Joes and frozen french fries for the fam. With any luck, I'll double the Sloppy Joes too and have 3 extra meals in the freezer.

Wednesday night, my father-in-law is coming over to 'do Christmas'. I am planning to make the full turkey dinner for him, stuffing, yams, cranberry sauce...the whole bit. He'll love it. I purchased an extra turkey around Thanksgiving for this purpose. I plan to serve half of it and, you guessed it, freeze the other half of turkey, stuffing and fixings to have for Christmas dinner Friday night.

Thursday is Christmas Eve of course. Our evening meal will consist of Braided & Stuffed Bread, boneless chicken drumettes, brushetta, chips, raw veggies and lots of little desserts. We will add a little sparkling grape juice to top it off, along with the reading of the Christmas story and off to bed the children will go.

Once all of the gifts are placed under the tree, I plan to put Hashbrown Breakfast Casserole in the slow-cooker to enjoy Christmas morning, along with (sshhhh...Pillsbury) cinnamon rolls.


Friday is Christmas day!! I plan to enjoy our new children's first Christmas and take tons of pictures. Then, instead of preparing a Christmas dinner, I will pull out my freezer meal and pop it in the oven, while I scrapbook some pictures to share with you.


What are YOU having this week? I would love to hear about your meal plans!

Friday, December 18, 2009

Friday's Extracts from Blog World


It's just been so fun to read the funny, frugal and creative posts from so many talented ladies in the blog world!


Here's a creative post about making last minute gifts with what you have on hand. It features this darling earring organizer. I want to try to make it somehow in the next 6 days....no stress.


I also plan to include this in our Christmas morning menu, it's Chocolate Chip Cream Cheese Coffee Cake. Oh my gosh, I saw this over the summer and saved the recipe for the holidays....absolutely sinful....
Dena at lil' eskimo in texas has some very creative and inexpensive ideas to celebrate the holiday with your children here.
This Raisin Apple Bread looks very similar to the Holiday Bread at Panera. Frankly, I would just use canned pie filling and keep it simple. Looks awesome!
Take care and enjoy!!












Creating and Writing a Family Vision and Mission Statement

Amidst all of the holiday cooking, shopping, wrapping and chaos, I become strangely reflective this time of year. Looking back over the last 12 months, my thoughts turn to questions like "How effective was I as a spouse and parent this year?", "Who's life did I touch in a special way?" or "What did I create that will stay beyond my time on this earth?".

While I am not interested in New Year's resolutions, I frequently revisit this line of thinking throughout the year, my husband does as well. We enjoy dinner out and alone once in a while and we often "go here". Life is short. It is far too easy to look back and realize that it's been 5 years, 10 years, 20 years! My prayer at the end of my life is that my regret list is very short.

Hence, I began to think about a Family Vision and Mission Statement. We have done these many times, but not lately. Since a few things have changed in our family this year (!), perhaps it would be the right time to work on this during the Christmas break. Hailey will be home and of course, Mark will be off more than usual. It would be a great time to get everyone's input.

Think and pray about it, discuss it with your spouse, if applicable and take the first step. I found this article to be very helpful and encouraging. Go here to read further!

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Thursday, December 17, 2009

Christmas Goodies from You!

A good friend and reader, Melissa, submitted these pictures and recipes for Candied Nuts and Polka-Dot Macaroons. They look delish and easy to whip up.
If you have a simple and yummy holiday recipe that you would like to share, email me at morriskelly62@yahoo.com with a pic and recipe. I can't post them all, but I'll do my best.
Couldn't you just eat the entire bowl??? The Candied Nut recipe can be found here.

You can find the recipe for Polka-Dot Macaroons here! I can't wait to make these. Wouldn't they be cute for Easter as well? Maybe little jelly beans inside to look like a nest?


Slow Cooker Meal in a Dash

With all the activity of the week, I need an easy dinner tonight. This has got to be one of the fastest meals I can whip up and everyone loves it.
I opened 2 cans of tomatoes, one can of red beans, one can of black beans, one can of chili beans and one can of corn, and dumped them all the the slow-cooker. A tablespoon of chili powder and a handful of pre-cooked ground chuck followed and dinner is made.
I'll probably make some corn muffins later to go with it. Along with some grated cheese and yogurt, this will make for a nutritious and hearty winter meal tonight.

Wednesday, December 16, 2009

Quilting for Dummies

Finally, I can show you the completed quilt project for my son, Eli.
My Eli is a big, Giants fan. I've never really understood why, I think it's because he and Eli Manning share a name. I must also say that I've always been cautious of decorating kid's rooms with teams or characters because it just limits the life of the decor and wastes time and energy.
However, the Giants have been Eli's fav team for quite a long time now. One day while I was browsing through Hancock fabrics, I noticed the Giants fabric and knew that Eli would love it. That was over a year ago, but I finally got around to making this for him.
When I do crafty things, I tend to 'improvise' a lot. If something isn't working, or I don't like the way it looks, I add and subtract things. I think of myself as somewhat of a Picasso, an ear here, a foot over there, but in the end, it looks great.
Once I laid out the cut pieces to the quilt, I thought the red looked a bit....red. It just needed something. Maybe I could take another year to make this thing and cut out the little helmets, then sew them on the red part.....nah. Then I noticed that Isaac had a little pair of jeans that were just beyond repair. "Wouldn't the little Levi pocket look cute on the red part?" I considered. Yep, it was a winner.
I sewed the denim pieces to the top layer of red, clipping around the edge of the patch before hand.


Then once all the pieces are sewn together, I clipped all the way around the seams. This part takes forever and will give you blisters if you try to do it too fast.

Once all the clipping is complete, just throw it in the washer on cold/gentle. I use a knee high hose on the washer hose to catch all the lint, you might consider that as well. It doesn't take much to clog up the old pipes of this house.


Here's my baby boy with his new Prayer Quilt - he was thrilled to take it to bed tonight.
He is completely covered in prayer.





Meandering thru Mid-Week

This year in Geography, we studied how to tell the age of a river. All the way from it's infancy at the top of a snow-capped mountain somewhere, it eventually makes it to the bottom of the mass and takes many shapes before finding it's way back to the sea. One of it's last stages of life is when it begins to 'meander', or sway back and forth, like multiple S's through the land.

I felt like that river today....old and all over the place. This morning got started like most others, coffee, devotions, laptop, children come down, empty dishwasher, feed dog and start breakfast. After breakfast, we usually have devotions or Bible study with the kids. Some days, too many days, they get to goofing off and I can't seem to get order back. Today I wanted to get into the geneology of Jesus, there are two accounts in Matthew and Luke that differ. I asked the children why the geneologies were necessary and why the two were different.

However profound the question, the giggling continued and several warnings were issued by Mom. The disruption continued and I finally warned that the next person who spoke during the devotion would have extra chores. It didn't take long for someone to blow it, my 'clown'...."Fine, one extra chore for you today!" I said. This child looked at me in shock, then grinned, sure that I wouldn't follow up. As soon as I resumed the lesson, he started up again. "Ok, now two extra chores." Now I have his attention. But before it was over, he had three extra chores to do today. I hate to do that, but as the children get into the tweens and teens, I have to be more strategic.

So, I got my bathroom floors scrubbed and they just shine! Hopefully, that boy will think twice before he speaks during devotions....at least for a day or two.

Once breakfast was complete and cleaned up, I remembered that there were still several children that I haven't shopped with for their sibling gifts. At least four of them are done, thanks to Amazon - "Hey kids, wanna go shopping? Come sit by me and the laptop....". I think I would rather have a root canal with no anesthesia than take small children shopping at a mall this time of year. However, I had another itchy teenager who really needed a break from his younger sibs and had my sympathy. Trevor was home early from finals, so I decided to take said teen and drop him off at the mall for a couple of hours while taking Rahel to a small toy store I knew of about 15 minutes away. She hasn't seen a mall and I'm not ready to go there yet. Walmart is still blowing her mind, we'll just leave it there for a while.

Here is the sibling gift exchange list:

Eli has Trevor - Yankees hat
Isaac/Colin - DC T-shirts
Bereket/Eli ( I had an extra gift from Santa that I decided to donate here)
Ephy/Meredith - Horse mosaic kit
Rahel/Isaac - R/C car
Meredith/Rahel - Amazon, cross necklace
Trevor/Hailey - Gift card
Colin/Bereket - Done on Amazon, GIJoe!
Hailey/Ephy - Thank goodness Hailey can shop for herself now!

I finally finished this list today...oh Lord, send me another driver in this family!! :)

Back home, I got Ephy and Bereket down for a rest. In the back of my mind, I was trying to decide how to get any work done on Eli's prayer quilt. Beginning to end, the quilt only takes a few hours, but in pieces, it just drags on and on. Next post, I'll include details about Eli's quilt and pix.

Another thing on my brain this week is that I really need to focus on Rahel's skills around the home. She is willing and able, I just haven't taken the time to teach her specific things. My goal this week was to teach her how to make rice and pasta, separately of course. Last night was rice and I also showed her how to boil frozen veggies. Ah, the things we take for granted they have never seen. Anyway, we'll keep working on that.

Ephy continues to potty train and isn't able to stay dry at night or naptime, so that's always in the mix around here. I am ready for undies for this young man!!

Next thing I knew, it was time to pick up Colin from the mall. Afterwards, we returned to Plato's Closet (consignment shop) to pick up clothes he was trying to sell, he made $56, not bad.

I really feel this need for closure on some things before Hailey gets home tomorrow night. I hate to waste precious visiting time with her running errands or tasking, she won't be here that long. The pressure I was feeling was completely self-imposed, but I'm trying to buy time with my daughter. If I could just get dinner on the table, and of course, eat ice cream sundaes (Wednesday is ice cream night here) then just maybe I could sneak downstairs to sew that quilt a bit more in the hopes of finishing.

Rahel made the pasta and was very pleased with herself. Then the ice cream, clean-up, kids washed up in jammies and Mary Poppins was on TV....perfect. Run and sew!!

It's 10:32 pm and I just sent Eli up to bed with his new Prayer Quilt, fresh out of the dryer.
I feel great that's it's done, not perfect, but good enough. He is thrilled and I have two giant blisters on my hand from cutting so fast.

It was all worth it, but I am very tired and talked out....

Tuesday, December 15, 2009

Artistic Adventures in Quilting

Today was another busy day preparing for Christmas. I was at Mark's office bright and early to finish wrapping gifts - it took much longer than expected, but I am finished! Check that off.




I had hopes of arriving back home in time to sew for at least an hour. Eli's Prayer Quilt is cut into pieces on the ironing board and awaiting my prayers and sewing machine.




What is a Prayer Quilt? A Prayer Quilt is simply a quilt or blanket that I have made for the children. As I work on the quilt, I just silently pray for every aspect of my child's life that I can think of:


*Their life in Christ and service for Him

*Wise and loving friends

*Proper role models

*A healthy sense of self

*Their future spouse, for his/her upbringing, friends, etc.

*His/her children and parenting skills



My quilting skills are not impressive, I can only make the rag quilt. However my talent is lacking, these little blankets have tremendous power in terms of making the kids feel loved and covered, so to speak, in prayer by their mom.


This Americana quilt is the pattern I used for both Trevor and Colin's prayer quilt. I added an extra row of blue at the end of Trevor's due to his height and because it made them different, to avoid confusion.


This is Meredith's little baby Prayer Quilt. I saw the fabric combination at Hancock's and fell in love with it as it was begging to be made for my little girl. It's a bit small for her now, although she continues to use it as an extra layer in the winter, as a nap blanket or to cuddle and watch TV with.


This quilt is considered one of my artistic failures, but it still gets lots of love. The colors didn't look like I thought they would so it became more of a family blanket.


A couple of things I do:


*Look for fabric on sale, but it has to be something cute and/or attractive for years to come. Sales and coupons are in play here.


*Cotton only for the outer layers and the filling. I have spent too much in the past on cotton filling, now I just use cotton flannel. It works just as well. I like cotton because it shrinks nicely and it breathes.


You can make these a number of different ways. I usually cut 10" squares, this way you won't need as many to make the blanket and it makes for easy math.


A twin mattress top is 38x75, so 4-10" squares x 8-10" squares will do just fine. You can make smaller squares if you want, it really doesn't matter. Using a cutting mat and a rotary cutter, I just whip through the fabric and filling, cranking out 32 for filling, 32 fabric squares for the backing and 32 more fabric squares for the topper, in whatever pattern you like. For the 'row style' quilts, I just mark it off and use scissors.


Then I pin together my little fabric sandwich, first the backing, then the filling and finally the topper. Pin it securely enough so that it won't shift around with some handling. Once all of my 'sandwiches' are pinned, I lay them all out on the floor or table and arrange them the way I want them to look. Make sure to keep the fabric facing the outside.


Then, one row at a time, I stack the squares in the pattern they will be arranged. With a ruler, I make an X from corner to corner very lightly with a fabric pencil. While they are still pinned, I sew over the X. Sometimes I use a contrasting thread, other times I use one that blends in.


Once my row is sewn with X's, and making sure that they are in the order I want them to appear, I begin to sew the squares together, placing the edges upward. It won't look that great at first, don't worry, it will look very cool when it's done.


Once you have all of your rows sewn, just continue and sew the rows together. To make sure the seams line up, you may want to pin the rows together, lining up the seams, before you begin. The great thing about rag quilts is that they are very forgiving of little boo-boos, so don't worry, just keep praying for the recipient.


Once the quilt is sewn together, you will have all of these ugly edges facing you. UGH! Did you do something wrong? Nope, just hang on. Now the tedious part. With sharp scissors, begin to clip the flipped up edges, making sure to not get too close to the seam and making the clips about 1/4" apart. You will have a lot of strings and lint, but keep going. This part can take quite a while.


When you're done, you'll still wonder if you are on the right track. BUT here's the secret.....put it in the washer. Yep, washing it will cause all of those ugly edges to turn into wonderful ragging. You won't believe your eyes. YOU DID IT! And you have a wonderful heirloom for your child.


More pictures tomorrow as I sew Eli's quilt.